You can request help at any time for anything. Some people, who are generally content, come in to speak with us to ask for some guidance about a situation in their lives.
Many other people seek help once they notice that their distress is interfering with their functioning.
If you are having difficulty sleeping or concentrating, then it may be a good idea to obtain help. If you are noticing higher conflict in relationships or feel like withdrawing from relationships or activities, it may be time to request assistance. Stress, anxiety and other negative emotions can cause interference with appetite, can decrease energy or increase restlessness. You may be feeling sad from your fears and want to overcome the fears and increase your confidence. If you notice you are not getting as much done at work or at school, then it may be time to request some assistance.
The same circumstances described above for adults apply to children. Once you notice your child is experiencing a change in functioning for approximately 2 or more weeks, then it is probably a good time to come in for a consultation to determine the best way forward to help your child. Children also experience difficulties with sleep, appetite, energy, and concentration when their stress, anxiety, sadness or anger is interfering with their daily lives. Stomach aches are common in anxious children. If your child is angry or irritable a lot of the time, this anger may be a result of underlying anxiety or sadness. If your child’s marks start dropping, your child is withdrawing from friends, or is avoiding activities including homework, then it may be a good time to come for help.